Every parent will react in their own way to the loss of their child. Some will start trying for another baby straightaway; others might wait until after the first anniversary has passed and others might never be able to face another pregnancy. Whichever way the parents chose to deal with the issue of future children, is entirely appropriate for them.

If and when the parents decide to have another baby there will understandably be increased anxiety and lack of self-confidence. Extra visits from the Health Visitor are often very much appreciated, as is easy access to the family doctor for what may appear to be minor concerns.

If there have been staff changes since the birth of the last baby, it is recommended that new staff are informed of the history and, depending on the length of time elapsed, existing staff reminded. Families often move home after a baby dies in which case all professionals will need information to avoid distress and upset.

The Scottish Cot Death Trust has developed a “Next Infant Support Programme” (NISP), which you can refer parents to, as soon as a new pregnancy has been confirmed. For more information about the NISP, click here.